Mylow
the spark
- Self-centering instinct
- Disruptive presence
- Relentless teaser
- Fiercely affectionate
- Spring–Summer 2008 — born as one of ten kittens
- August 2008 — visits from the neighbor’s ginger cat Garfield (2008–2019) inspire the decision to adopt again
- Adopted from the local shelter with brother Jamie, the same place Carry once came from
- August 29, 2008 — first day home
- First encounter with Garfield — hisses erupt on both sides, fur bristles, tension rises — Garfield is brought back outside
- Wildly playful — constant mock fights to test strength and boundaries
- Ears outgrowing the rest of him in early months — a disproportion that slowly balances out
- The living room and the basement bar become his playground with Jamie — the bedroom their wrestling arena
- When playing with humans, interrupts Jamie and takes over; in adulthood the roles reverse, and in old age the old rhythm returns
- Through kittenhood and early adulthood, often sleeps curled up with Jamie — grooming him more often than he is groomed in return
- First time outside, rushes toward Garfield in the garden — smaller and months younger, but fearless; Garfield flees
- Accidentally locked inside a nearby garage soon after first going outside — heard and located by Jamie, who leads his human mother there; back home, he rolls across the floor in unrestrained relief
- In early years, comes to the front door when someone returns home — drawn by new scents and activity; over time, the habit slowly disappears
- Mylow is leaner — noticeably larger ears than Jamie and a thin tail with a small kink near the tip
- When stroked along the tail to that kink in dry winter air, a tiny static snap jumps exactly at that spot
- As kittens, Jamie and Mylow discover claws and jump strength — their humans teach them where scratching and jumping are allowed and where they are not.
- Shows a particular passion for scratching — and keeps testing higher jumps and stronger launches
- Accepts being carried only when young; later resists it
- Closely bonded with Jamie when young — sharing play and sleep — later keeps more distance, but relies on him when conflicts with other cats escalate
- Frequently provokes and annoys Jamie
- As a kitten, fearless toward strangers — later retreats completely; inside, almost always hiding together with Jamie beneath the basement stairs, only rarely elsewhere; outside, disappears alone
- Seeks constant physical contact with his surroundings — rubbing his mouth against hands, clothes, walls, bottles, remotes — anything within reach becomes part of his sensory world
- Poor hunter — usually finds prey but treats it like a toy, rolling beside it instead of engaging seriously
- Affectionate with constant repositioning — never still for long
- Paws unusually rough — dry and coarse
- More glimpses coming soon